CLASS #4 World Religions

How do you greet people in your life?

In the morning, I usually greet my family or friend with "ohayou(gozaimasu)" . in the afternoon and evening, I say "konnnichiwa", but sometimes say "ohayou" to people I meet for the first time in the day.

Is it different for different people? How so and why?

Yes, it is. People use many different way of greeting case by case or with individual. I think that the differences are depend on their living environment which they have had. And also, the differences depends on each culture or religion.

Do you touch people when you talk to them? Why? Or Why not?

I sometimes do, but just for close friends. In my view, it is normal to talk as touching my friends, but I don't mean doing it in particular. If I am touched by someone who I don't know well, I don't feel comfortable.

CLASS #3 Buddhism

I am Buddhisim, but I'm not religious, so I don't know the details.

Last class is the first time to experience the Buddhism, and it was very interestion for me.

Looking back my life, there are many things affected by Buddhism.

For example...

1. say "Itadakimasu" and "Gochisousama" with my hands together-I didn't think it's affected by Buddhism. I think we do it to show the feeling of gratitude or it may be natural to do it.
2. apologgize to a person for something with my hands together-It's kind of same as 1, but of course I have different feelings. I'm not sure, but I do it to show my sincerity.
3. visit a person's grave especially on July 20th-I don't do this not often, but on July 20th (or around the day) I visit my grandfather's grave every year. When we do it, we offer flowers and sweets and wash the grave to respect and think about our ancestor.
4. offer a rice and a glass of water at a altar-I don't have a altar at my house, but my grandmother does, and offers them at a altar twice a day (before eating breakfast and dinner). It prorobably means that we need to serve a meal to our ancestor before we eat.
5. flower arrangement-to learn flower arrangement was very neccesary thing for girls in old days. I don't know the details, but one of my teacher told me that flower arrangement has strong connection with Buddhism.

CLASS #2 Assignment

As the homework, I read this article.

"Men. Women. Talk. Talk. Talk. Talk. Talk. Hear? No."

from The New York Times

http://www.nytimes.com/1991/06/19/garden/men-women-talk-talk-talk-talk-talk-hear-no.html?scp=4&sq=cross%20culture%20communication&st=cse

I think that it says...

One woman, Dr. Tannen who is 45-year-old, teaches in the School of Language and Linguistics at georgetown University in Washington has written some books about the problem of communication across cultural, class and ethnic divides.

In one book, she argues that boys and girls grow up speaking different languages and continue to do so as adults. She also suggests that conversation between men and women can be involved with cross-cultural-communication. It's like women speak and hear a language of connection and intimacy, men do a language of statue and independence.

Men and women has different senses of values of communication. Both of them should have conversational style "rapport talk" each other, then they can get along with more.

CLASS #1 Nice to meet you all!

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